5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great by
Terri L. OrbuchMy rating:
5 of 5 stars [Note: I got this book for free on read-to-review basis. Thanks to the publisher River grove books and NetGalley.]
My first comment about this book is that it is full of wisdom. The subject of the book is marital life but one can apply it, more or less, in any relationship.
The book is based on scientific research and scientific research is quite valuable when it is made available to common people in a format which is easy to understand. In this aspect I think that the author has succeeded tremendously.
The 5 steps that the book talk about are -
1. Expect less and get more.
2. Give incentives and rewards
3. Have daily briefing
Here the author discusses "10 minute rule" which is quite interesting.
4. Implement change
Emphasis is more on yourself than on your partner. The expectation is that the partner will reciprocate.
5. KEEP COSTS LOW, BENEFITS HIGH
The book says -A common characteristic of unhappy marriages is that chronic disagreements remain unresolved. Work on the smaller things that irritate you everyday and fix them constructively.
More sex. More attention. More kindness. More fun. More connection. This books' five simple steps are the way to get there.
I give it 10/10.
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